Men who needs them!!!!

So,three weeks ago my boyfriend and I split up after almost 5 years. I cannot believe what an ass he turned out to be. He explained that he no longer wanted to be with me because of my attitude. I agreed I had been very unbearable to live with and advised him I wanted to go to counseling and that I loved him and wanted to salvage the relationship. He couldn't promise me that he would still want to be with me after counseling. We contemplated a trial separation where I would leave the house but leave all my belongings there. Everything in the house is mine and I didn't like the thought of leaving all my stuff there for him to use while I was out of the house with nothing. So, the more I thought about it the more I just wanted to get my stuff and get my own place. Why should I have to work on the relationship alone. I knew now that I needed to be alone for the sake of myself and my son.
Before I met him I was happily single and loving it. I had just came out of a terrible 9 year relationship and was not looking for another commitment. I did what I wanted whenever I wanted. It was great.
I bowled on a league and he just happened to want to bowl with us. He was definitely not my type and I didn't want to date him. He was very persistent and kept asking me out for drinks. I of course kept turning him down. He started asking my family about me and I eventually ended up going out for drinks with my family and he just happened to be at the same bar we went to. We started talking and he ended up asking me out for dinner. I accepted and one thing led to another and we became inseparable. We got a long so well and had lots of fun together.
Anyways, he turned out to someone I didn't know at all. He has put me through so many terrible things and I am not quite sure why I stayed with him. When we first met I believed he was legally separated and come to find out that was a lie and that he was still sleeping with his wife. When his wife figured that he wasn't going to leave me and go back to her she confronted me and told me everything. I was devastated and wanted to end it right then and there but he cried and begged for me to forgive him and said he would never do it again. I like a dumb ass forgave him.
Then he was having a huge problem with the fact that his daughter was growing up without him and so he flew up to Washington to visit her and decided he couldn't leave her and decided to quit his job and stay up there. After a month he decided he couldn't live without me and asked to come back (TALK ABOUT SCREWED UP AND CONFUSED). I said okay.
After a couple months of him being back his crazy wife filed for divorce. She also, claimed that she was pregnant with his child from the month that he was up there. He swore she was lying and that he had never slept with her. He asked her to provide proof and so she sent him a piece of paper from a Doctor's office verifying the pregnancy. He still swore it wasn't his. After she realized that he was not going to run back to her she claimed that she had a STD and that he gave it to her. We both got checked and were clean. After, he told her we were both free and clear of any STD she claimed that she lost the baby due to the STD and left us alone for a while.
Since then she has finally met another idiot to be with and they have been going strong for about 2 years. They have just purchased a half a million dollar house and seem to be happy. Who knows!
Well, for the past 3 years we have been taking his daughter and her 2 other kids for the summers and I am sure she loves that fact that he is wrapped tightly around her nipple. This year is no exception. She drove down last night to bring her oldest daughter. I had this terrible feeling that since she was going to be driving 12 hours from Washington state that she would end up spending the night at his house. I have had the worst anxiety thinking about all of this. I woke up this morning and on my way to work just felt the need to drive by and see if my guts were right and sure enough that bitch was parked in front. I wanted to scream! What the hell! How could he do this. I guess, it took me a while to see what a bastard he really is. I should have just stuck to my guns and left him when his wife confronted me. She will always be his wife as far as I am concerned. Those losers deserve each other. If anything he is the one who needs help not me.